It seems that as time goes on, for me... male and female become more similar in regards to how I feel during the day.
When I began this journey of learning about both ends of the spectrum, there was a big difference in the two. Male felt powerful, outgoing, confident ... yet when I was female, it was the opposite - weak, very introverted, shy. That has changed now ... my male isn't as confident, yet my female isn't as shy. It's like the two sides are balancing themselves out. Of course, I still notice when I'm one or the other, but the shifts aren't as drastic now.
Some things I've noticed about the female side, is I don't have much desire to do meditation or any sort of "work". I'm content with just being in the moment - whatever that may be.
Agreed with you guys though - that female gets a bad rap. Usually when your "caught" in issues and dragged into it, we naturally go female, but there's definitely more to it than just the difficult times.